Well, these past few days, something has been going on for quite some time and it is still not settle until things became much more worse.. First of all, I would like to ask this question to everyone whom may be reading this post, "What exactly is love?".. Anyone knows can answer or maybe, all of us has a different perspective to this question.. However, I think that most of our answers can be quite the same in some ways.. For me, I would answer this question with:Trust, Honesty, Confidence, Compromise and Accomodate, Care and Concern, Understanding, Freedom and most importantly, Love.. Trust: As a couple, you must have trust in your partner that he/she won't betray you, for example like, having an affair. Without such trust, you might get over-sensitive and over-jealousy about the one you loved.
Honesty: As a couple, being honest with each other is very important as it will help to clear any suspicion between the both of you. This would also contribute to trust between couples.
Confidence: As a couple, having confidence in youself and your parnter is also important, this some how sort of links to trust, if you get what I mean.
Compromise and Accomodate: As a couple, sometimes giving in is a way of maintaining a healthy relationship. However, sometimes small arguements may enhance the colour between your relationship. But do take in mind that, do not let such small arguements evolve into big ones.
Care and Concern: As a couple, care and concern is needed between both parties. This would show that you care about them and showing concerns. This would make he/she feel that you're important to he/she.
Understanding: As a couple, showing understanding is really important, for example like, when girls have their mood swings and you guys know it, try to give in and tolerate her because it's not totally her fault for mood swings. For girls, when a guy is in a bad mood, don't try to ask them to give in to you because it will only strain relationship. What you girls can do is to make him happy or something, try to give in whenever it is possible.
Freedom: Each and everyone of us has our own lifes that others cannot control except for ourselves. As couples, each of you has your own private life, so try to give freedom to them in their own private lifes and do not interfer so much, it will only upset the other party and strain relationships. Love: Lastly, love is the most important thing that would start, and also end a relationship. Without love between couples, there won't be a realtionship. So keep in mind that if you really love that person, go for it and don't hesitate.
For what I had said for the above, some may think it is all bullshit and some may think it is right in some way and some may think it is totally wrong. However, this is what I think, and each and every of us, have different views about love.. I'm just posting this due to one matter that has been dragging for too long..
